It has been a HOT minute since I've sat down and worked on writing blogs again. Truthfully, it's one thing I've really missed having time for since Charlie's been earth-side. If you're a working SAHM, you know the struggle to even find a moment to eat a warm meal. But, here we are. Trying to find small moments in the day to recap thoughts and memories because it's something that brings me joy and helps me to slow down. Honestly, I'm not even sure if anyone reads blogs anymore but I digress because that's not the point. LOL. I write for me and to have these thoughts for years to come when my brain starts to get fuzzy. (Which seems to be happening more and more lately. Postpartum brain fog is real.) Anyways... enough with the blabbering and here we go. Coming in hot with a full recap of our trip to the opposite side of the planet- Japan!
This trip was a bit of a last minute decision for me. My family (Mom, dad, younger brother and older sister) had this trip planned for at least the past year. I didn't even consider going because I knew I would be a few months postpartum and traveling with a baby wasn't even something that had crossed my mind. But, as the trip grew closer I started chatting with my family about it and John inquired if I had thought about going? At first I was like, "LOL YOU'RE JOKING RIGHT." John wouldn't be able to join me due to work and solo-ish traveling with a baby sounded like a death wish.
There were so many "what if's"- What if the 13 hour flight was absolute chaos and Charlie had a meltdown? What if Charlie didn't adjust to the time change and we would be exhausted the entire time? What if I wasn't able to handle everything on my own and mentally broke down?
Honestly, all completely legitimate concerns.
However, when I really sat down to think about it I kept coming back to the same answer- this was a once in a lifetime opportunity and all of my concerns were exactly that, "what if's". I couldn't control the outcome of any of them and there was no point in worrying over things that may or may not even happen. So I took the leap and told John I would like to go. (Backtrack for a moment, we do have to take a second to appreciate how incredible it is to have a partner who supports you to do hard things and take chances. I know how fortunate I am to have opportunities like this and that's never taken for granted. If you're reading this, I love you so much John.)
My decision to go was about a month out from the trip. First thing's first was booking the flights and accommodations. I wanted to be on the same flight as the rest of my family, to make it easier for a multitude of reasons, so that was booked first. Then we went to book accommodations, which again I wanted to stay at the same hotels as the rest of my family. Thankfully I was able to get into all of them except one. Which ended up making for a GREAT story, but I'll get into that later into this post. The itinerary for the trip was already mapped out and there were a few excursions and spots I would need tickets for so that was the last step in getting things solidified. We were going to be doing quite a bit of public transport traveling while in the country (3 different cities), so I tried to pack light. For both of us I brought one large suitcase, a diaper bag and our baby jogger stroller. Which was SO great for traveling since it is lightweight, folds up with one hand and fits into the overhead bin!
Now- let's get into the travels!
Traveling to Japan (Wednesday, March 22nd-Thursday, March 23rd)
Our first leg of the travels was out of Miami on March 22nd. We had an 8:35am flight so we decided to book a driver to pick us up at around 5am. We made great time to the airport by about 6am, which ended up being the perfect amount of time because I had some trouble with check in. We were flying through Air Canada and since we had booked the flight using some points I had to pay for Charlie as my lap infant at the airport. (Yes- lap infants fly free however you do have to pay for the taxes on it.) For some reason I wasn't able to do it over the phone and it was just a literal headache having to do it in person but we got it figured out. I had about 30 minutes once we got through security so I went to the Turkish Airlines Lounge (shared with Air Canada at this terminal) to get some coffee. It was super nice! This first flight was from Miami to our connection in Toronto and Charlie ended up napping for about an hour. We love airplane naps. When we got to Toronto we had a couple hour layover so we went to the award winning Air Canada Maple Leaf Lounge for some food. At about 1:40pm we headed over to the gate only to discover they weren't allowing me on the plane. To enter Japan, at this time, you had to either have 3 covid vaccinations or get tested within 72 hours of travel. I chose to get tested but my test results that I had printed out didn't say "nasal swab" on them so they weren't going to allow me on the plane. (Japan had very specific requirements for the covid testing) After a few minor panic attacks, my brother saved the day and was able to get my paperwork uploaded to the Japan travel website and approved before the plane boarding closed. Not exactly my idea of "excitement" for traveling but I sure am glad he was there. Something good to note if you're going to be traveling there in the near future. The flight itself was smooth, we were fortunate enough to fly business class and Charlie got some good stretches of sleep on me in the lie flat seats. Bless. After all the travel- 2 planes, 23 hours total and 16 hours in the air ... we finally landed in Japan around 5pm! Charlie was honestly a rockstar during all of the travel and chaos. I am so proud. Also, I can say with confidence that traveling with a 7 month old is not for the weak. Make sure you have a good baby carrier. It took a while to figure out where we were going, get our metro passes (the line was ridiculous) and take the multiple trains so we didn't end up getting to the hotel (Super Hotel Premier Akasaka) until about 11pm. We pretty much passed out when we got there. Something to note about Japan culture is that their hotel rooms are SMALL compared to everywhere else I've stayed. I felt a bit cramped with just me and Charlie in the room, but that also the fun part about being in different cultures! Just have to set your expectations appropriately. Also we didn't need any adaptors for our chargers, they just charged slower because the voltage is lower.
Day 1 (Friday, March 24th)
The time change threw Charlie for a bit a loop and he was up for the day by 5am on Friday. I tried to get him to go back to sleep but he wasn't having it so we went for a morning walk and got some coffee at the 711 next to our hotel! Our walk took us to a cute park nearby called Takahashi Korekiyoo Kinen Park where Charlie and I got to see our first cherry blossoms. They're so beautiful. We then walked back to the hotel and I got Charlie down for an early nap before my family woke up and we set out for the day. Our game plan was to get adjusted and start to explore parts of Tokyo. We saw the imperial palace, took the train to see Shibuya crossing (one of the busiest intersections in the world) and shopped around Shibuya. There were SO many shopping malls and it was really interesting to see what was in style for Japanese fashion! We then got lunch at this amazing japanese-Italian spot called Black Brown. After all the adventure, Charlie was pretty exhausted so we went back to the hotel for a nap. We were asleep by 4:30... I woke up at 8pm. Bless my family for bringing me back some fried rice for dinner because I was starving. Charlie woke up around 9:30 so we showered, had dinner, FaceTimed John and we're back asleep by 11pm. I think it was safe to say we both needed sleep.
Day 2 (Saturday, March 25th)
Charlie woke up at 7am which was GREAT. We love normal wake up times and adjusting to the new time change! Like I had mentioned in the beginning, it was one thing I was quite worried about was if Charlie would adjust well to the change. I think the advice I received from a good mom friend worked well. Focus on keeping him calm and happy during the travels and let him sleep when he wants to. It'll probably be stressful so no need to add more on top of it with trying to keep a schedule. Instead acknowledge that the first few days might be tough and focus on adjusting back to your routine when you get to your destination. Once we got dressed for the day we met up with my brother and sister and walked down the street and picked up another morning coffee since it was cold and rainy out. We took the subway to Uneno Park to see the beautiful rows of cherry blossoms and visited the Tokyo National Museum! Since it was another cold and rainy day, spending it at the museum was perfect. I wanted to also mention as a breastfeeding mom, I personally felt comfortable nursing in public. (Also probably important to note that I normally feel very comfortable nursing in public) Yes, it isn't necessarily "normal" for Japanese women to nurse open in public because they're a very private culture but nobody is going to say anything to you if you do. They are also very accommodating to nursing/pumping mothers though and typically have a nursing room at many public places. I would utilize them as well because Charlie is at the age where he tends to get very distracted so I found the rooms as a nice, quiet break. After our time at the museum we walked back through the park to check out a street food festival going on! I tried Japanese beer and this interesting dish of rice wrapped in bacon with some type of mayonnaise sauce. Ask me what it was called I have NO idea because everything is in Japanese but it was GOOD. On my way back to the hotel for the evening I found a cute Christmas ornament at a local shop in Akasaka (its my thing, I get ornaments wherever we travel to), stopped at a Japanese bakery and picked up some take out noodles for dinner!
Day 3 (Sunday, March 26th)
We originally had a full day tour planned with an agency for today but they canceled on us last minute due to the weather. Somehow we got connected with this other INCREDIBLE tour guide called Yoko though a friend at Savannah's yoga practice. It's crazy how life works out sometimes and sometimes good things fall through for even better things to come into play! It was a rainy day, but that didn't stop us. Yoko took us out for an amazing day exploring different spots in the town of Kamakura. She picked us up from our hotel that morning and then drove us through the countryside to drink matcha tea in the bamboo forest of the Hokoku-ji Temple. Along the way we stopped and got pastries at a local bakery shop that was her favorite. Our next stop was at the Kotoku-in Temple that showcased a giant buddhist shrine in the center. We even had the opportunity to walk inside of it! We then tried Japanese cookies at the famous Sakura Sakura bakery before walking through the cherry blossom lane to the Tsurugaoka-hachimangu Shrine. Yoko even stopped at a grocery store and helped me pick up diapers for Charlie. It was such an incredible day and she was by far one of the BEST tour guides I've ever had. She was informative, so kind and really took her time showing us around her country. I cannot recommend her highly enough if you're going to make the travels to Japan and want a tour guide. Her instagram handle is @yokofukudatokyosakura, but if you don't have instagram feel free to send me an email and I'll help you get connected to her! Once we got back to the hotel we went out for sushi for dinner where I ate my bodyweight in salmon sushi (and also tried squid!) before finished the day seeing all the cherry blossoms lit up in downtown Askaska.
